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Retirement
On a personal note, I am retiring from the Navy. I will have
over 37-years of active service when I drop anchor. My wife
and I have decided to remain in Western Maryland for the
time being, if the ‘tax-me’ state doesn’t chase us back to
Georgia, west to West ‘By God’ Virginia, or north to
Pennsylvania. The people are wonderful; the scenery great;
and, the small town we live in is everything anyone could
want in atmosphere and friendliness. We are looking
forward to retirement life, though I will be looking around
for something else to do. I think about two weeks of me
being home is about all my wife will take before she makes
me find something to do during the day. I have been to the
mandatory Transition Assistance Program (TAP) at
Bethesda National Naval Medical Center. They teach us
what our retired benefits are; how to successful fight the VA
to get them; and, how to apply for civilian jobs. We were
very blessed to have some great speakers who go from TAP
to TAP addressing the audience. I was an anomaly among
medical personnel, but learned a lot I didn’t know and saw
quite a few urban legends de-bunked.
Writing resumes is something new for retirees. Bollocks has
a different meaning in the civilian community. Will I work
when I retire, or will I write full-time? Writing is a labor of
enjoyment, but even I have to put away the computer about
10:00 on the weekends, so if I elected to write full time, I’d
be done by ten every day. I think I would find myself bored
if I wasn’t doing something continuously because for
37-years I have worked minimum of ten-hour days;
deployed at-sea for over 9-years; and, flew for nearly
5000-hours, which includes 115 traps on carriers. (Military
types try to keep up with the statistics because we banish
them about when we meet new people. It’s kind of like
down in Georgia where I grew up when we first meet
someone. The first five minutes are spent telling each other
to whom you are related; where your family comes from;
and, denying kinship to those who have offended the family
name.)
Between my retirement date and now, I have a lot of
traveling to do. I am honored to be the Navy Day Ball guest
speaker in October at Naval Security Group Activity
Medina, Texas and at Naval Security Group Activity
Norfolk, Virginia. Then, in early November, I get to attend
the Navy Day Ball in Ontario, Canada where we have
Sailors and help them celebrate our Navy’s birthday with
our Northern neighbor. I am looking forward to going to all
three of these events. They will be the last Navy Day Balls I
do as an active duty Sailor. I spoke recently at the retirement
of Master Chief Carol Cooper at the Naval Academy. She
was the first female master chief in the Cryptologic
Technician rating. I discovered that even when you’re
retiring someone and it’s not yourself that your throat can
constrict with the emotion of the moment. I wish her and her
retired Royal Navy husband, Ivan, all the best in San Diego.
There are few who retire who can keep the moisture from
their eyes as they hang up the uniform they wore for over
20-years. It isn’t as if you’re giving up your shipmates when
you retire, but it is a step across a divide that will separate
you from the active duty shipmates you leave behind. I have
reached the point where most of the shipmates I grew up
with in the Navy have long ago ‘crossed over’ (Retired, not
died) and I am honored that so many of them seem to be
waiting in the light at the end of this tunnel to help me adjust
to being a civilian. (What tie looks good with Navy Blue?
And, why aren’t white socks acceptable with gray
pin-striped suit?)
The emotion of the retirement ceremony isn’t only about you
retiring; it includes the trappings of tradition, the service
member’s speech where he recognizes the sacrifice of family
and the mentoring of leaders during his or her career. It
includes the centuries-old traditional walking between
sideboys as the Boatswain pipes you ashore. Then for the
modern ceremony, you walk back through the sideboy
gauntlet to escort your family down the same manned ranks.
They, too, sacrificed so you could serve your country.
If it weren’t for the family supporting the military member,
there would be no volunteer force today. So, when you
reach the end of your active-duty career, it is only fitting to
recognize the spouse and children who were uprooted every
three years and shipped to a new duty station. Children who
left friends and changed schools so many times they seldom
recognize a specific school as the one they attended. They
attended all of them and they left all of them. I have been
thinking of hiring a stand-in. Some young college man from
a theater group, dressed in appropriate 19th Century Sailor
garb to stand in the wings of the stage and when I choke up,
I’ll wave him onto the stage and he can read my words until
I recover. Then, again, I may just settle for dancers…I
wonder if the Rockettes are available? Of course, there will
be women at the ceremony so I could wear my Chippendale
outfit, but the last time I did that it cleared out 4-city blocks
before the screaming and fainting stopped. There are some
who do better fully clothed.
I discovered years ago when a Chief and I went to Gibraltar
that the longer you stay in the Navy the more distinct your
language becomes. Civilian English and Navy English
diverge. There were only the two of Sailors at many of the
functions we attended and you could see the glazed
expressions of the civilians when we spoke because many of
the terms we used they had never heard, or they never really
understood what they meant--which is one reason I started
the glossary. You can read it at http://www.sixthfleet.com.
Ignore some of the tongue in cheek humor with the
definitions, but I find it hard to be serious for a long period
of time.
When you decide to retire from the Navy, you write a letter
to the Secretary of the Navy asking for permission to retire.
If you have under 30-years of service, then they will transfer
you to the ‘Fleet Reserve’ list. Though they have only on a
case-by-case basis done it, the Navy can recall you to active
duty if you are on the ‘Fleet Reserve’ list. For those such as
myself with over 30-years of service, they send us directly to
the ‘Retired’ list. I have received my message approving me
for the ‘retired’ list effective March 31, 2005.
Does that mean I work until March 2005? Nope. In fact,
most Sailors, when they retire, take something called
‘terminal leave.’ (I wish we had a better term than
‘terminal.’) You add up the number of days you have on the
books and add another 20-days to cover the time off the
Navy gives you to find a house and another job, and
calculate when you can cease work. I will probably have my
retirement ceremony around the first week in January and
then start terminal leave.
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